What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch full of attention and presence, without a standard form and predetermined result. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, constantly with respect for (mutual) boundaries. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage happens on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and sometimes even at the depths of body and soul. The purpose of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, delighted state of being. The result is often a fantastic physical, psychological wellness. Usually, the receiver is extremely relaxed, incredibly streaming and winding up well in the heart, and in greater spheres.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch full of attention and presence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. Although many touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The hands of the giver are connected with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly concentrated on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active as well as feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Complete of attention and existence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a loving touch filled with attention and existence. Both the giver and the receiver are completely present. Do not think of the other day or tomorrow. Don't look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or receiving the massage. A really mindful touch from the heart. Receive likewise extremely consciously, feeling it in your heart. Tantra massage is not about routine, set patterns are really out of the question. Everything occurs in the minute, in complete awareness, lovingly attuned to each other and the situation. Dreaming away or going to sleep is also not intended (still, when that's exactly what you need, it's ok).
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will constantly be various. It is not the technique or the preferred sequence of massaging that is important, it's about exactly what is appropriate/necessary. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed.
Tantric massages for that reason frequently take an extremely surprising course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "fine", ending in happiness.
How to get the very best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limitations
We understood it for a long time, of course, however considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have come up in the world of tantra massage. Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage.
Set clear borders in advance
Every individual (other than when you are informed) has his limitations. This is human and is likewise essential (check out the short article on safeguarding limits. Think in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limitations are. Make certain there is an appropriate intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits in advance: about mental limits, and likewise take care for clearness about physical boundaries. It is a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to always be naked, nonsense. With clothing on is also entirely ok (though hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to be focussed on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), nonsense too. Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head. In addition, really each cell is sensuous, however you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Trigger and let flow freely
Triggering and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body gets involved and erogenous zones can likewise be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ emotional/ enthusiastic/ love/ creation/ instinctive energy.
Focused on the natural delighted state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "genuine" tantra. Well ... Tantra is a really useful, body-oriented movement, a vision of life targeted at growing in love and awareness. In a split 2nd you can end up being informed (by 1000% surrender), but typically, that is a procedure in time. Tantra understands various strategies to use on the journey to enlightenment. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them. Tantra has no purpose besides self-realization: restoring the natural (happy) state of being.
Typically resulting in a wonderful physical, mental well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically nice, often tasty. We, therefore, welcome you to completely enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Of course, all massages have particular practices and methods in common. Yet there is a huge difference with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (aimed at relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sexual massage (targeted at enjoyment fulfillment).
* (Body) therapy (intended at healing).
Well since you are actually super energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is a profession apart.
The essentials of tantric massage.
For a detailed description, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following essentials stick out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- prior to you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an Lodon Tantric outcall massage).
* Provide good conditions (physically, but likewise psychologically).
* Explain agreements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage tips-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make sure your massage is demand totally free, don't push or force anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Activate (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the whole body.
* Do not just use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Every now and then ... do nothing at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Use your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment sounds?).
* Develop in integration (rest) moments.
Need totally free.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in exactly what they themselves find enjoyable, enjoyable, desirable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "needs", keep away from your very own concerns and above all ... do not aim to force anything. Nothing needs to be done, nothing is required! Once again, don't attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Rely on love. Possibly you are disappointed when somebody goes to sleep. You might not be waiting for an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no objective. No desired result. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage ideas-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a delighted ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Respect borders, set clear limits beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly really open minded - they are naturally since of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, obviously. Know that it can turn out differently.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Energize the entire body. Being aroused is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are very essential! A lot can show up.
* Be alert to renewed freezing moments. Avoid limits from being crossed again.
* Action by action ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. But beware: no sex! Practice makes best. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection in between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and offer integration minutes (simply not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage take place?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not hurry to the climatic ending, hold it, remain in the minute, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible results of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (sometimes completely empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of splendidly streaming life energy. Your body armor ends up being softer, thinner or perhaps vanishes. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a possible healing impact. It is possible that obstructions, psychological injuries concern the surface. There may be an emotional release, consisting of physical responses such as shaking, weeping, shocks. Although tantra massage is not the like healing, this release might recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and caring.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more loving, you discover what it is like to enjoy yourself.
Is taking pleasure in.
You will feel comfy in your body. The combination of relaxation and a lot of energy means that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The entire body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With respect to (shared) limits.
* Establishes a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, delighted state of being of the recipient.
* Generally resulting in a fantastic physical, mental well-being (of both).